This time of year is full of transitions.  Most kids have enjoyed spring break and are finishing the last stretch of the school year. Seasons are changing, spring holidays are popping up, and summer is right around the corner. 

However, for kids who have experienced trauma and loss, transitions can be daunting.   Even if they are currently in a good place, many kids perceive their future as unpredictable and frankly, scary.  Often times when kids become scared, they regress by using skills and behaviors they’ve become accustomed to in the past.  These may include coping mechanisms such as crying, tantrums, anger and controlling behavior.

As every transition includes an end and beginning, many kids dealing with grief may become overwhelmed with yet another loss. Therefore, in an attempt to hold on to the present, they resist the transition and this can become a challenge to the entire family. 

1. Provide a calendar for the family to highlight known transitions.  Be sure to mark the last day of school, summer vacations, family birthdays, holidays and any other dates that might change the daily routine
2. Help kids identify or create “transitional objects” that they can have and hold on to during difficult transitions. Examples include:
   • A framed picture of them with a caring adult they trust.
   • A key ring with a house key so they always know that this is their home.
   • A favorite blanket or stuffed toy.
   • A necklace or bracelet including a meaningful object or made of their favorite colors.
3. Prepare and deliver a meal during times of transition.  Providing a meal gives parents additional time to spend with their kids, listen to feelings and fears, and provide the safety net of support that kids need during transitions.
4. Communicate with the family you’re supporting.  Spend time listening, praying and identifying ways to uniquely support them.

Project 1.27's newest awareness campaign, Make Your Sock Stand is now underway!  For six weeks, from April 13-May 25, you'll receive family-friendly information to gain knowledge and teach your kids about foster care and adoption. Learn how you can be an advocate and raise funds to recruit, train and support families for kids in foster care.  One generous donor has offered to match donations up to $20,000, so remember your participation goes twice as far.

How It Works:

• Register for Make Your Sock Stand Emails with facts, learning activities and a prayer focus
• As a family or individual, pick a sock to fill with loose change, chore allowance, or money designated just for your sock
• Upload a picture of your sock to the Sock Gallery, or upload it to social media with the hashtag #MakeYourSockStand
• Sign up to receive Make Your Sock Stand stickers in the mail
• On June 1, we’ll join our socks together at the Socks Unite Friends and Family Picnic in Highlands Ranch, Colorado.  RSVP today! If your sock can’t make it to the picnic, you can send a check or give online.