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Summer Fun, Not Summer Regression!

Summertime for children tends to be full of fun, adventures, and sometimes just lazy days. While many of us welcome the break, it’s important to know that the change in routine can be a challenge for some kids, particularly those who have experienced trauma. For kids who come from previously chaotic households, adjusting to the change of a summer schedule can be yet another transition.

Although summer activities may be fun for many kids, this may lead to more “acting out” or emotional dysregulation where emotional responses don’t seem to be in the “normal” emotional range for the situation.

Additionally, children who may be behind academically find that summer vacation leaves them further behind. However, the progress made in school and homework guidance in the evenings does not have to be lost and while providing learning lessons during the summer will probably be greeted with moans, it will help promote continued growth instead of possible regression.

How Do I Get Involved This Summer?

As Support Team Members, summertime is the perfect opportunity to increase involvement with a foster or adoptive family. Here are some ideas:

  • Spend Quality Time: Use this more relaxed season to continue developing stronger relationships with the family. Between BBQ’s, throwing a Frisbee, and finding other creative ways to play outdoors, there are many opportunities to enjoy being together and learn more about one another.
  • Promote Learning:  Use time together to create fun ways to practice math, science, or other school skills. Engaging in summer reading challenges online or at the local library will benefit children when school resumes in the fall.
  • Provide Respite Opportunities: Your foster or adoptive friends would no doubt love a break from the busyness of having children in the home all day. Watching the children for a couple hours while parents grab lunch or a walk will be an immense blessing. Before making plans, check with parents to discern whether your planned activity might be over-stimulating or overwhelming for the children.
  • Invest in Summer Camps: Refer to our March Support Team Newsletter to learn how to help the family research and decide on possible camps