On a recent trip to EMM's affiliate office in Boise, Idaho, we met Benjamin, a former refugee from Rwanda who was resettled in the U.S. about two years ago after spending 14 years in refugee camps in the Democratic Republic of Congo and in Zambia.
Since he arrived in Boise, Benjamin's made tremendous strides; he has two jobs, one as a nursing assistant and another teaching other former refugees to drive. He has an apartment and a car and many friends in the community who he met through his church and his work.
Benjamin told us, with his customary smile, about his first Thanksgiving in the U.S., about how he celebrated with his co-workers and later with the members of his church. And then he told us a story about true thankfulness.
After he fled Rwanda, Benjamin was separated from his wife and two very young daughters when an armed gang descended on their settlement in Congo, killing and robbing indiscriminately. Benjamin escaped with his life, but he lost his family.
He searched in refugee camps and towns, asking everyone he met for news of his family. He lived for more than a decade with no word and no resolution.
Then, just a few weeks ago, Benjamin heard from a friend in Zambia; there was someone in the refugee camp there who knew Benjamin's wife. She and his daughters were living in Uganda. Since then, Benjamin has spoken with his family on the phone nearly everyday.
"It's like they are alive from the dead," he told us. "I know now that God is real."
It's extremely moving to hear Benjamin tell his story. His second Thanksgiving in the U.S. will be even more thankful than his first, as he shares the joy of his recent discoveries with his friends in Boise.
For those of us who have never lived through the agonies of war and persecution, the extent of Benjamin's past suffering and trauma is an abstraction, something we can ponder but never really comprehend. Surely, the same is true of his graditude today.
Happy Thanksgiving;
Episcopal Migration Ministries