Deacon, former refugee to represent EMM at Refugee Congress
When Esmail Dezhbod goes to Washington in August, he’ll be representing the concerns of refugees from his native Iran, those resettled in Connecticut and the thousands of former clients of Episcopal Migration Ministries.
But he’ll also be sharing his own insight, developed through a life experience defined as much by his resilience, integrity and kindness as by the hardship and discrimination he’s endured.
Dezhbod will be a delegate to the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugee’s first ever Refugee Congress in Washington, D.C., August 2-4.
The Congress will be a gathering of refugees from all 50 states, representing many nationalities and six decades of resettlement dating to the passage of the UN Convention on the Status of Refugees in 1951.
During the gathering, refugee delegates will discuss the many facets of the resettlement program as they’ve seen it, develop proposed solutions for the difficulties refugees face in integrating into life in the U.S., and share their stories and suggestions with members of Congress on Capitol Hill.
As the delegate from Connecticut and one of two nominated and sponsored by EMM, Dezhbod said he values the opportunity to add his voice to the conversation.
“I feel honored to go. It’s really interesting for me,” said Dezhbod, 58. “I need to talk to others, to listen and figure out what they want. I would like to discuss, ‘What’s the situation? What can I do?’ I will try to not represent myself, but represent everybody.”
Dezhbod has been in the United States since 2000, when he was assisted by Integrated Refugee and Immigrant Services, EMM’s affiliate in New Haven.
He was an active member of the Christian community in Iran, and he was forced to flee when several of his friends were murdered for their faith.
Today, he’s a transitional deacon in the Episcopal Church seeking ordination as a priest, and he works full time as a hospice chaplain, ministering to the spiritual needs of the dying and their families.
It's a job Dezhbod finds rewarding and one that he's able to do because of a lot of hard work put in after he and his family arrived in the U.S.
In the 11 years since coming to Connecticut, Dezhbod has earned an associate degree, a bachelor’s and made progress toward his MBA, completed clinical pastoral education and his courses in seminary. His wife is a licensed practicing nurse and his oldest daughter, one of three children, begins college in the fall.
Dezhbod those accomplishments may not have been possible in Iran, where opportunities for education are rare and highly restricted.
“It’s a good opportunity here. It’s lots of sacrifice. At one time I had three different courses; I was in bachelor, I was in seminary and I was in chaplain residency, which means full time, 60 hours, working and studying. It wasn’t easy,” Dezhbod said.
Despite the many difficulties he’s encountered, and perhaps because of them, Dezhbod has developed a unique and inspiring perspective.
As a man of faith, a servant, father, husband and refugee, he appreciates the insight that his experience provides, and he's come to recognize the value of diversity.
"You know, I’m out of box for here and here is out of box for me," Dezhbod said. "I am who I am and what I experienced. That shaped me. I’m not the same person as I came here. I’m so different. And when I came here, I found even the other Iranians so different from me. And I didn’t understand, but now I understand it. I’ve been changed."
"And that’s the big deal about diversity; people can find different experiences, different backgrounds. It makes it richer if people without the same culture, the same race, the same experience talk to each other. These days that's very popular and I think it's right."
And when he gets to Washington, he'll get to put that noble idea into practice.