A Decision You Can Live with for the Rest of Your Life

Why Adoption?

Why should women facing an unplanned pregnancy consider making an adoption plan?

In the past, we've talked about how adoption benefits the adoptee and the adoptive parents (I know this well). Let's look at it from the viewpoint of a pregnant young woman:

Adoption is an answer when the woman isn't ready or able to parent -- emotionally, financially, or both.
Adoption often is the greatest chance for the child to receive the best possible care in a loving, stable home with two parents.
After placement, the birth mom has the opportunity to resume her life plans -- college, career, family -- knowing that she made this decision out of a great love.
She has the joy of knowing that she gave her baby life, and won't ever know the sting of regret and guilt that often follow the decision to abort.

She has the option of starting a family when she's ready, and won't know the hardship and resentment that often comes with single parenting.

For ALL of these reasons, we can confidently advocate for adoption. Encourage a woman facing unplanned pregnancy to consider it!

Definition: A birthmom is a woman who gives birth to a child who is later adopted or for whom an adoption is planned. She may also be called the biological mother.

Reflections on My Daughter's Birth Mom, 18 Years Later

Everyday I look at my daughter I'm reminded of the love her birth mom had for her ... choosing life, choosing parents and a home. I'm so grateful to her!

I don't doubt for one second that her decision was the hardest thing she's ever done, but I do believe she's glad she did.

I thank God daily for the decisions my girl's birth mom made 18 years ago.

Special thanks to author Lawrence Morton.

12 Myths About Birth Mothers

This insightful article busts 12 myths about birth moms. Be sure to read all the way through to ...
#12. They regret their decision.
Placing your baby into the arms of another woman is the hardest thing a mom can do. But by the time that happens, a birth mother will have thought long and hard about her decision and come to terms with it. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt. All adoptions are rooted in loss. But no matter what happens next, a birth mother can always take comfort in knowing that she did the best for her child. And that’s something no one should ever regret.

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DID YOU KNOW?

Less than 0.5% of women facing unplanned pregnancy make an adoption plan?
When they do, it's because an adult in their life encouraged them to consider adoption? And ...
there are over one million U.S. couples waiting to adopt?

Adoption Funding Resources!

At CAFO2017, I learned about these organizations that help prospective adoptive parents with the cost of adoption:

ABBA Fund provides grants and interest-free loans for Christian families.
Adoption Airfare provides discounted airfare worldwide for adoption travel.
Pathways for Little Feet provides interest-free loans and helpful info about other resources.

Care Group: Infertility & Adoption!

Our care/support group is taking a break for the summer. We will meet again on SEPT 16 at 2pm. This is a wonderful group of caring couples who meet monthly in west San Jose. You are welcome to join us. Contact Terri for details, 408 656-1876.

Check out our web site at www.UnplannedGood.org/
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Why are we doing this?
Young women are 50% MORE likely to make an adoption plan when the trusted adult in their life suggests it to them. Otherwise, most girls don't give it a thought, and choose between abortion or single parenting. That's why we need to get this on the radar of more people.

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My Mom encouraged me, and that made all the difference!
I needed to know that she'd stand by me through this and support the adoption plan."

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About Unplanned Good

We promote adoption as a positive option for those facing unplanned pregnancies. It can be so very good (and beautiful!) for all involved.

Unplanned Good is reaching out to both teens and their parents, to let them know that adoption is an option. Studies have shown that girls are 50% more likely to see their pregnancy through and make an adoption plan when an adult suggests this path.

Please visit our site, and encourage others to see it. Read the encouraging, heartfelt stories there. Send in your own story, and ask a friend to do the same.

A Decision You Can Live with for the Rest of Your Life

Reflections on My Daughter's Birth Mom, 18 Years Later

12 Myths About Birth Mothers

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