“It is Jesus who stirs in you the desire to do something great with your lives, the will to follow an ideal, the refusal to allow yourselves to be grounded down by mediocrity, the courage to commit yourselves humbly and patiently to improving yourselves and society, making the world more human and more fraternal.”
Address at World Youth Day, Rome, August 19th, 2000
St John Paul II was a Pope who exemplified reaching out and building connections with communities across the world. He travelled across six continents and created World Youth Day to promote a sense of belonging and connection for young people. The last few weeks John Paul College students have also been reaching out and making connections with members of our community.
Our students have assisted at Athletics carnivals for both Mother Teresa two weeks ago and Holy Spirit today. Yesterday our Year 10 students helped run science and problem solving activities for the Thinkfest Challenge for students at Holy Spirit.
We were also very privileged to host a welcome lunch in our Restaurant for our Buddhist neighbours who included two Buddhist nuns as well as the members of the Buddhist community. Our lunch was cooked by the Year 9 and 10 Food Technology students in their unit of work, Food For Everyone. The students produced amazing food and I would like to thank Mrs Vicki Williams, Annie Daley for their preparation and work with the students to produce the beautiful meal which we shared. There is more information about this event in an article below.
Keys to Happiness.
Research also tells us that one of the many keys to personal happiness is reaching out and helping others. As you can see, many of the key elements to finding happiness are reflected in the activities that our students have undertaken this week.
OUTSIDE: OUR DAILY ACTIVITIES
1. GIVING
Do things for others
Caring about others is fundamental to our happiness. Helping other people is not only good for them and a great thing to do, it also makes us happier and healthier too. Giving also creates stronger connections between people and helps to build a happier society for everyone. And it's not all about money - we can also give our time, ideas and energy. So if you want to feel good, do good!
2. RELATING
Connect with people
Relationships are the most important overall contributor to happiness. People with strong and broad social relationships are happier, healthier and live longer. Close relationships with family and friends provide love, meaning, support and increase our feelings of self worth. Broader networks bring a sense of belonging. So taking action to strengthen our relationships and create new connections is essential for happiness.
3. EXERCISING
Take care of your body
Our body and our mind are connected. Being active makes us happier as well as being good for our physical health. It instantly improves our mood and can even lift us out of a depression. We don't all need to run marathons - there are simple things we can all do to be more active each day. We can also boost our well-being by unplugging from technology, getting outside and making sure we get enough sleep!
4. AWARENESS
Live life mindfully
Ever felt there must be more to life? Well good news, there is! And it's right here in front of us. We just need to stop and take notice. Learning to be more mindful and aware can do wonders for our well-being in all areas of life - like our walk to work, the way we eat or our relationships. It helps us get in tune with our feelings and stops us dwelling on the past or worrying about the future - so we get more out of the day-to-day.
5. TRYING OUT
Keep learning new things
Learning affects our well-being in lots of positive ways. It exposes us to new ideas and helps us stay curious and engaged. It also gives us a sense of accomplishment and helps boost our self-confidence and resilience. There are many ways to learn new things - not just through formal qualifications. We can share a skill with friends, join a club, learn to sing, play a new sport and so much more.
INSIDE: OUR ATTITUDE TO LIFE
6. DIRECTION
Have goals to look forward to
Feeling good about the future is important for our happiness. We all need goals to motivate us and these need to be challenging enough to excite us, but also achievable. If we try to attempt the impossible this brings unnecessary stress. Choosing ambitious but realistic goals gives our lives direction and brings a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction when we achieve them.
7. RESILIENCE
Find ways to bounce back
All of us have times of stress, loss, failure or trauma in our lives. But how we respond to these has a big impact on our well-being. We often cannot choose what happens to us, but we can choose our own attitude to what happens. In practice it's not always easy, but one of the most exciting findings from recent research is that resilience, like many other life skills, can be learned.
8. EMOTIONS
Look for what's good
Positive emotions - like joy, gratitude, contentment, inspiration, and pride - are not just great at the time. Recent research shows that regularly experiencing them creates an 'upward spiral', helping to build our resources. So although we need to be realistic about life's ups and downs, it helps to focus on the good aspects of any situation - the glass half full rather than the glass half empty.
9. ACCEPTANCE
Be comfortable with who you are
No-one's perfect. But so often we compare our insides to other people's outsides. Dwelling on our flaws - what we're not rather than what we've got - makes it much harder to be happy. Learning to accept ourselves, warts and all, and being kinder to ourselves when things go wrong, increases our enjoyment of life, our resilience and our well-being. It also helps us accept others as they are.
10. MEANING
Be part of something bigger
People who have meaning and purpose in their lives are happier, feel more in control and get more out of what they do. They also experience less stress, anxiety and depression. But where do we find 'meaning and purpose'? It might be our religious faith, being a parent or doing a job that makes a difference. The answers vary for each of us but they all involve being connected to something bigger than ourselves.
Taken from http://www.actionforhappiness.org/10-keys-to-happier-living
I wish all our families a lovely weekend
Catherine Rey