Stories of Resilience: Women Overcoming Homelessness
Paying attention to women’s stories is critical to ensure services are designed to meet their needs. Some of the powerful stories that showcase resilience of women who have overcome homelessness.
A Grateful New Beginning
"My name is A.S. (name changed for privacy), and I want to express my deepest thanks to Jen and Carrie from the Housing Department at Project SHARE. After more than two years of searching, they helped me find a beautiful place to call home."
"Jen and Carrie went above and beyond advocating for me, supporting me through the process, and never giving up. Their dedication made all
the difference, and because of them, I finally have a safe, comfortable home. I truly can’t thank them enough.”
At Project SHARE, stories like this remind us of the life-changing impact of stable housing—and the importance of compassionate, persistent support. Every home found is a step toward hope, dignity, and a stronger community.
Keeping Families Together: A Shelter Story of Strength and Hope
“I felt my 9-month unborn daughter kick inside me while moving boxes out of our home. Instead of feeling excited, I wanted to cry.”
That moment marked the beginning of a painful chapter for one local family. After being evicted from their two-bedroom townhouse due to the skyrocketing housing market, they found themselves with nowhere to go. What was supposed to be a joyful time—preparing to welcome a new baby—was overshadowed by fear, instability, and
heartbreak.
With limited options, the family was forced to separate: the mother and two daughters entered a local shelter, while her husband, Tom (name changed for privacy), was placed in a men’s shelter across the city. The separation during such a vulnerable time felt unbearable. “It was the most uncertain time of my life,” she recalls. “I was scared I’d have to deliver our baby alone, without Tom by my side.”
In their
search for a better solution, Tom discovered YWCA Niagara Region’s Emergency Family Shelter—the only shelter in the area that allows families to stay together. It was a turning point.
“From the moment we arrived, I felt like I could finally exhale,” she shares. “After so much instability, we were together again. I suffer from extreme anxiety and used to shut down just to cope. But in this safe space, I could finally breathe.”
Only a week or two later, their daughter was born—6.2 lbs, 16.1 inches—and Tom was there to cut the umbilical cord. “I’ll never forget that moment. We were whole again.”
After four months at the shelter, the family received life-changing news: with the help of their YW caseworker, they secured an affordable rental unit. “We’re finally moving forward. We’re not just surviving anymore—we’re rebuilding. We can finally focus on what matters most: our family.”
This story reminds us that safe shelter isn't just about a roof—it's about dignity, unity, and a future. Thanks to programs like the YW’s Emergency Family Shelter, families don’t have to choose between staying together and staying safe.
Wendy’s Story: Finding Stability Through Support
Wendy (name changed for privacy)
arrived at our doors pregnant and without a home, unwilling to be separated from her partner. Her journey was shaped by complex challenges—mental illness, a developmental disability, and substance use—that made maintaining stable housing extremely difficult. Despite receiving support, she struggled with emotional regulation, resulting in repeated evictions and cycles of homelessness.
Over time, and with continued support from Gateway Residential & Community Support Services and Mainstream, Wendy began to recognize the value of stability. When she returned to the Niagara region after another difficult period, she took the courageous step of
reaching out once more. This time, with renewed commitment and comprehensive wraparound support, she successfully secured housing—and today, she is thriving.
At Gateway and Mainstream, we witness every day how homelessness affects women in unique and often unseen ways. Many women do not appear in traditional homelessness statistics. Instead, they remain hidden, living in unsafe, temporary situations without a true place to call home. Their experiences are shaped by factors such as domestic violence, a lack of affordable housing, and systemic barriers that make it even harder to regain stability.
That’s why safe, supported housing is not just important—it’s life-changing.