Often only the glamerous side of youth exchange is seen. Here are a few excerpts from a recent report from one of our kids. it is very honest and highlights what we're hearing from many of our students. I've been hanging out with lots of Rotarians on the weekends. I've seen many castles this past weekend, the weekend before that I went to a boat show, and the weekend before that I went to a wood carving festival and a hunting festival also. I really love being with Rotarians, every time there is guaranteed to be something new and exciting. I also learn lots of stuff when I am with them too! My language is progressing very well and I'm starting to talk really fast. It feels really really cool!!
On the contrast though, I've been having a hard time in school lately. The other students are fantastic and everybody is sooo nice to me, we're always laughing together. However, each day is 9 hours long and when I am sitting in a class which sometimes lasts for 2 hours, my mind turns back to thinking about home because I still can't understand much of what the teachers are saying. This is when I get really homesick. Sometimes I feel like just walking out of school in the middle of class but I don't because I know better. I've told my host counselor about this and she told me that my language will progress and it will go away when I have a better command of the language. Yes, that is true and I agree with her but for the meantime it is like torture for me.
I've always loved school but now I don't like it so much. Like I said before though, weekends are absolutely fantastic! It's just the weekdays that are really hard for me. Do you have any advice for me? I really admire the rebounds now even more than I did before. If it is one thing I've learned this past month it is that exchange is work, lots of it, and I was told that many times at orientation weekends, but now I really know what you were talking about. I've only been here a little over a month now and it's hard for me to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Whether that's a negative or a positive, I'm not sure.
You'll be glad to know that his district contact here had some good advice and we heard back only days later that it had really helped.