Family Ministries - Marriage Encouragement

Boundaries. Healthy marriages begin by having good boundaries. The “triangle” of boundaries are Freedom, Responsibility and Love.

“God created us free. He gave us responsibly for our freedom. And as responsible free agents, we are told to love Him and each other. This emphasis runs throughout the whole Bible. When we do these three things – live free, take responsibility for our own freedom, and love God and each other – then life, including marriage, can be an Eden experience.” Boundaries in Marriage by Dr. Cloud and Townsend, p. 25

Reflection: Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating. Where there is control or perception of control, there is not love. Where we aren’t taking responsibility for actions, there is not love.

"For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don't use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love." Galatians 5:13

Thought for prayer: Lord thank you for the freedom you give me. Help me to use that freedom to honor you and take responsibility for my choices. May I choose to love you and love others (especially my spouse) this day.