Here’s why you should not GOSSIP - by Pope Francis
In ancient Greece, Socrates had a great reputation for wisdom.
One day someone came to find the great philosopher and said to him -
Do you know what I just heard about my friend?
A moment, replied Socrates. Before you tell me, I would like to test you with the three sieves.
The three sieves?
Yes, continued Socrates. Before telling anything about others, it’s good to take the time to filter what you mean. I call it the test of the three Sieves.
The first Sieve is the TRUTH. Have you checked if what you’re going to tell me is true?
No, I just heard it.
Very good! So you don’t know if it’s true.
We continue with the second Sieve. That of KINDNESS. What you want to tell me about your friend, is it good?
Oh no! On the contrary
So, questioned Socrates, you want to tell me bad things about him and you’re not even sure it’s true? Maybe you can still pass the test of the third Sieve, that of UTILITY.
Is it useful that I know what you’re going to tell me about this friend?
No, not really.
So, concluded Socrates, what you were going to tell me is neither true, nor good, nor useful. Why then did you want to tell me this?
Gossip is a bad thing. In the beginning it may seem enjoyable and fun, but in the end, it fills our hearts with bitterness and poisons us, too!
Take care everyone
Sue
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