During a consultation, your patient informs you that he and his wife are having difficulties conceiving a baby. The patient's wife is also your patient.
The patient is clearly distressed and believes he might be to 'blame' for their fertility problems. His wife has three children from a previous relationship, but he has never had any children of his own.
As his wife is also your patient, you are aware that she is taking oral contraceptives. His wife has told you during a consultation that raising three children is challenging enough and she does not want to have any more children.
It becomes clear to you that your patient is unaware that his wife is taking oral contraceptives. It also becomes clear that he believes his wife wants to have children with him and that she has not told him her true feelings.
What should you do next?